For Siblings
Mini Game
Conversations about how
you're both doing these days.
10-15 mins
Round 1
Round 1
Put a
Finger Down
Start with five fingers up.
Put a finger down if in the last year you have:
1Taken a trip with friends
2Pulled an all-nighter
3Lived in someone else's house for at least a week
4Lent money to someone
5Surprised someone in your family
6Started a new hobby
Check who has the most fingers down.
Round 2
Rate Your Life
Rate each of these out of 10.
1 is lowest, 10 is highest.
1How healthy do you feel physically?
2How healthy do you feel mentally?
3How well have you been sleeping?
4How much fun are you having?
5How excited are you about your life?
One person gives their rating. Then it's the other's turn.
Round 3
How Well Do You
Know Me?
Guess what your sibling would say.
Pick what they would want.
1 of 2
What would they rather have more of right now?
•Time
•Money
•Energy
Then it's their turn to pick for you.
2 of 2
Now assume they have more time, money, or energy. What do you see them doing with it?
•Travel
•Rest more
•Start something new
•Work on their body
What's coming up that they're most excited about?
•A trip
•A milestone
•Something at work
•Seeing someone
First you pick for them. Then it's their turn.
Round 4
Us, This Year
One of you is Player A.
The other is Player B.
Player A
Player A asks. Player B answers.
This or that:
Nowadays, how do you prefer to relax? Going out or staying in?
These days, do you wake up excited or exhausted?
This year, did we grow closer, or drift a little?
Tell me:
In the last year, what changed the most in your life?
If you had to plan one weekend with me, what would we do?
From 1 to 10, how much did you tell me about your life in the last year?
Now swap
Player B asks. Player A answers.
This or that:
Lately, do you prefer watching more TV shows or movies?
These days, by the end of the day, do you still have energy or are you drained?
If you had to relive the last year, would you be excited, or dread it?
Tell me:
What's one thing you got better at doing this year?
Where do you want to travel next?
From 1 to 10, how much did you tell me about your life in the last year?
Last Round
One Year
From Now
Each of you record a voice note finishing this sentence.
Each of you record your answer as a voice note.
A year from now,
what’s one thing you hope changes for your sibling
and one thing you hope stays the same?
Suggestions:
The place you live in The job you're in The people around you your routine
Code: 0201
How to record
If both of you have an iPhone or iPad
1Open the Seesaw Social app.
App link: seesaw.social
2Go to Activities. Select ‘Session Capsule.’
3Enter the code: 0201.
4Record your voice note.
5Add a photo.
(Optional)
6Done. Saved in your timeline.
7Connect your space with your sibling.
8They record to the same capsule from their device.
Don't have an iPhone?
Save it on WhatsApp.
Open your sibling's chat on WhatsApp.
Each of you record a voice note and send it.
If you play this game again next year, it might be worth hearing these voice notes first.
And that's it.
If you got to know even one new thing about each other, maybe the game did its job.

Maybe, you two could do this again after a year. Or whenever it feels right.
While both of you are busy with the logistics of life, hope you don't lose sight of each other.
Inspired by research on sibling relationships in adulthood.