For Couples
Mini Games · 07
Growth
10-15 mins
Round 1
Round 1
What Matters
Most
Put these in order of what matters most to you right now.
Health
Career
Money
Adventure
Freedom
One person shares their order. Then the other.
Round 2
What We
Survived
Think about the hardest phase the two of you have been through together.

What did it change between you? What did you learn from it that you couldn't have learned any other way?
Think about:
A period of distance A financial crisis A decision A loss A phase where nothing went right
One person shares. Then the other.
Round 3
A Little
Like You
When you spend enough time with someone, you start becoming a little like them.

What about your partner has become part of who you are?
Suggestions:
Their patience Their calm Seeing the best in people Their honesty How they handle pressure Their generosity Their sense of humor How they love
One person shares. Then the other.
Last Round
Their Version
of You
A quiz to see how well you know each other.
If either of you has an iPhone or iPad:
1Open the Seesaw Social app.
App link: seesaw.social
2Go to Activities. Select ‘Their Version of You.’
3Share the link with your partner.
They can answer from any device.
Both of you have an iPhone?
Create a link for each other. You'll each get your own report.
What does the report look like?
Here's what you'll see.
A similarity score of how well your partner knows you.
A scene-by-scene breakdown of how they see you, with patterns and a lot more.
Don't have the app?
Don't have the app?
Try this instead.
Guess how your partner would answer each question. Then it's their turn to guess yours.
1. How does your partner handle a bad day?
Go to sleep Talk it out Stay busy Be alone
Next
2. What does your partner see as their strongest quality?
How hard they work How deeply they care How honest they are How well they handle pressure
3. When does your partner feel most like themselves?
Taking care of someone Alone with no agenda Building or creating something Surrounded by people they love
And that's it.
Hopefully you always stay curious about who the other person is becoming.
Next
Dreams
As you change, so do your dreams. Maybe there's something new to discover.
Inspired by principles from the book Eight Dates by John Gottman, Ph.D., & Julie Schwartz Gottman, Ph.D.