For Couples
Mini Games · 05
Fun
10-15 mins
Round 1
Round 1
Put a
Finger Down
Start with five fingers up.
Put a finger down if in the last week you have:
1Called or met a friend just to catch up
2Tried something for the first time
3Done something that scared you a little
4Laughed until your stomach hurt
5Said yes to something without overthinking it
6Danced, sang, or been silly when nobody was watching
Check who has the most fingers down.
Round 2
Childhood
Summer
Think about your childhood summers.

The kind of day where you had the most fun you've ever had.

What did that day look like from morning to night?
Think about:
Who you were with What you played Where you went How late you stayed out What you ate
One person shares. Then the other.
Round 3
Impressions
Your partner picks one of the scenarios.
You do your best impression of them.
Then you pick one for them.
1When they've just woken up
2When they're hungry and losing patience
3When they're excited about something
4When they want attention or affection
5Their go-to dance move
Or come up with one of your own
Round 4
The Partner
Test
Guess their favourite.
1Movie of all time
2Comfort food
3Way to spend a free evening
4Celebrity crush
Guess your partner's answer for each one. Then they guess yours.
Rate your partner. 1 to 5.
1Dancing
2Competitive
3Fun at a party
4Adventurous
Rate your partner on each one. Then they rate you.
Last Round
Pitch Your
Partner
You're on stage in front of an audience.

You have one minute to pitch: why is it fun to spend time with your partner?
Think about:
How you love doing nothing with them How they make you laugh How they take care of you How they make everything an adventure
Each of you records it as a voice note.
Code: 0105
How to record
If either of you has an iPhone or iPad:
1Open the Seesaw Social app.
App link: seesaw.social
2Go to Activities. Select ‘Session Capsule.’
3Enter the code: 0105.
4Record your voice notes.
5Add a photo together.
(Optional)
6Done. It's saved in your timeline.
Playing long distance?
  • Save with your voice note.
  • Link your space with your partner.
  • They add theirs from their device.
Don't have an iPhone?
Save it on WhatsApp.
Open your partner's chat on WhatsApp.
Each of you record a voice note with your pitch.
Maybe one day you'll come back to these and feel glad you did this.
And that's it.
Hopefully you two always make time to have fun together.
Next
Family
The home you grew up in unknowingly influences the home you're building.
Inspired by principles from the book Eight Dates by John Gottman, Ph.D., & Julie Schwartz Gottman, Ph.D.